Wisteria can assist women who are uncomfortable with their sexuality, who may be unable to relax and enjoy sex, or afraid of physical intimacy and sensuality.  It can be especially beneficial for those who have had traumatic sexual experiences. This essencce can help to clear these beliefs, allowing sexual enjoyment, openness, gentleness and ease of sexual intimacy. Wisteria can also encourage the 'macho male' to be more aware of his softer, feminine side.